Divorce is never an easy end to a relationship. Whether you have been together 6 months or 15 years, the odds are stacked against you. You cannot turn on the news without hearing about the 50% divorce rate, cheating husbands, and custody battles. But those statistics do not help you when you are in the middle of it. No one tells you how to survive a separation and avoid divorce. So you are pretty much on your own when it comes to figuring out how to save your relationship and get your husband interested again.
If you really feel like you would do anything to save your marriage, you are probably feeling very tired. Trying to figure out what went wrong can keep you up at night and add even more stress to an already stressful situation. You end up going over and over every little aspect of your relationship. You start to think that if you could just change a couple of things your husband would want to come back.
If every conversation you have with your husband right now ends in an argument, the first thing you need to do to get your husband interested in you again is stop having those conversations. This is especially true if you are trying to convince him that he needs to stay in your marriage out of responsibility or guilt. Trying to guilt your husband into loving you again will only make him feel trapped. Men do not stay in marriages out of pity or guilt. They stay when they feel like there is something worth staying for.